Being a bridesmaid is a huge honor, but it can also come with a lot of responsibilities. As a bridesmaid, you are expected to be supportive, helpful, and positive throughout the wedding planning process. Here are some tips on how to be a supportive bridesmaid:
Be a good listener
The bride is likely to have a lot of stress and anxiety leading up to the wedding day, and may need someone to talk to about her worries. As a supportive bridesmaid, it’s important to be a good listener and offer words of encouragement when needed.
Be available
Make yourself available to the bride whenever she needs you. Whether it’s to help with wedding planning, run errands, or just spend time together, being there for her is one of the best ways to show your support.
Be positive
Weddings can be stressful and emotional, but it’s important to stay positive and upbeat throughout the process. Avoid complaining or being negative, and focus on the positive aspects of the wedding and your role as a bridesmaid.
Offer to help
There are many tasks that need to be completed leading up to the wedding day, and the bride may need some extra help. Offer to help with tasks such as addressing invitations, assembling favors, or running errands. This will not only show your support, but it will also take some of the pressure off the bride.
Be respectful
Remember that the wedding day is about the bride and groom, and not about you. Be respectful of their wishes and decisions, even if you don’t agree with them. This includes being on time, following dress code guidelines, and being respectful of the other bridesmaids and guests.
Have fun
While being a bridesmaid can be a lot of work, it’s also a lot of fun! Take the time to enjoy the process and the wedding day itself. Take lots of photos, dance, and make memories that will last a lifetime.
Being a supportive bridesmaid is about being there for the bride every step of the way. By following these tips, you can help make the wedding planning process as smooth and enjoyable as possible, and create a special day that the bride and groom will never forget.
Emily Quigley is a wedding and engagement photographer in Northwest Arkansas. She’s been featured in Glamor and Grace, Aisle Society and several other online websites. Click here to get your booking today!
If you like blogs like this, check out some of my others:
Carina + Jorge New Years Wedding
Jillian + Craig Wedding at The Garden Room
University of Arkansas Engagement Session (Adrienne and Damien)
3 Tips for Building Your Wedding Day Timeline
Engagement Styling Tips for Her
